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      春秋戰國時期(qi)邢地中丘人（今內丘），姓(xing)程(cheng)，名本(ben)，字子華，“程(cheng)子”是(shi)對他的尊稱。程(cheng)子是(shi)晉大夫趙(zhao)氏家臣，程(cheng)嬰之孫，性(xing)情(qing)爽直(zhi)，博(bo)學多識，精通典(dian)籍，善寫能(neng)書，長于理(li)論，其思想體系介于道家和墨家之間。

      相傳，孔子與程本(ben)子在(zai)城(cheng)北(bei)馬峰崗前(qian)的(de)七里橋相遇，坐(zuo)在(zai)路邊的(de)野荊上(shang)談(tan)論起學問來，越談(tan)越投機，不知不覺談(tan)了(le)一天，孔子稱他(ta)(ta)是"天下賢士"，并(bing)讓子路取(qu)束(shu)帛(bo)贈給他(ta)(ta)。從(cong)此(ci)，不但留(liu)下了(le)"傾蓋而語(yu)"的(de)典故，還留(liu)下了(le)"坐(zuo)荊論道"的(de)佳話。

      韓魏相爭，互相侵犯，程(cheng)子往見(jian)韓昭僖(xi)(xi)侯(hou)。昭僖(xi)(xi)侯(hou)面色憂(you)郁，程(cheng)子說(shuo)(shuo)：今(jin)使天(tian)(tian)下(xia)銘于君(jun)之(zhi)前，書之(zhi)，左手(shou)銘刻，廢(fei)其右手(shou)，右手(shou)銘刻，廢(fei)其左手(shou)。但是，能(neng)書者(zhe)才能(neng)得天(tian)(tian)下(xia)，你(ni)敢書嗎？昭僖(xi)(xi)侯(hou)說(shuo)(shuo)：“寡(gua)人(ren)不書。”程(cheng)子說(shuo)(shuo)：“好，依我看，兩臂重于天(tian)(tian)下(xia)，身子重于兩臂。韓把天(tian)(tian)下(xia)都不看重，今(jin)日所爭之(zhi)地就更不該當一(yi)回事了(le)。為(wei)了(le)這地盤(pan)，憂(you)愁(chou)傷身就太不合算了(le)”，昭僖(xi)(xi)侯(hou)說(shuo)(shuo)：“好哇，勸(quan)說(shuo)(shuo)我的人(ren)多(duo)了(le)，還沒有(you)聽過你(ni)這樣的理論。”

程子修身(shen)養(yang)性，過著(zhu)隱居生活，但在傳授弟子學業上卻(que)一(yi)絲不茍，以誠相待。

      趙簡(jian)(jian)(jian)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)聽說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)是位賢士，使人(ren)前往(wang)聘(pin)請，許(xu)以高官厚祿，程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)避而不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)見。再招聘(pin)，程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)干(gan)脆搬了(le)(le)家(jia)。簡(jian)(jian)(jian)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)在戎邑再請程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)，程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)仍不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)允。第二天(tian)卻跑到齊(qi)(qi)國(guo)去了(le)(le)，簡(jian)(jian)(jian)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)高興。燭(zhu)過(guo)(guo)對簡(jian)(jian)(jian)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)俗(su)人(ren)一個，他侮辱你，應制裁他。燭(zhu)過(guo)(guo)帶兵(bing)到了(le)(le)苓塞（程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)住(zhu)的(de)地方），程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)走了(le)(le)已(yi)五天(tian)了(le)(le)。燭(zhu)過(guo)(guo)回(hui)來(lai)(lai)對簡(jian)(jian)(jian)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)沒(mei)見著程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)，簡(jian)(jian)(jian)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)后(hou)(hou)(hou)悔了(le)(le)。讓人(ren)到齊(qi)(qi)國(guo)寫書信召之。程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)回(hui)信表(biao)述不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)見簡(jian)(jian)(jian)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)的(de)原因，情切(qie)辭婉，簡(jian)(jian)(jian)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)讀后(hou)(hou)(hou)越(yue)發后(hou)(hou)(hou)悔，召來(lai)(lai)兒(er)(er)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)無恤(xu)教戒說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：燭(zhu)過(guo)(guo)，小(xiao)人(ren)也，他讓我(wo)(wo)得(de)(de)罪(zui)了(le)(le)程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)，我(wo)(wo)死后(hou)(hou)(hou)，他必(bi)反，你要小(xiao)心(xin)。無恤(xu)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)在齊(qi)(qi)國(guo)，齊(qi)(qi)景(jing)公(gong)也不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)用，程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)與晏嬰深交(jiao)。他在那住(zhu)著無妨。簡(jian)(jian)(jian)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)死后(hou)(hou)(hou)，無恤(xu)，嗣為襄(xiang)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)，程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)歸(gui)來(lai)(lai)已(yi)老(lao)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)干(gan)了(le)(le)，召來(lai)(lai)兒(er)(er)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)元訓說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)：我(wo)(wo)雖沒(mei)能(neng)輔佐簡(jian)(jian)(jian)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)，但(dan)趙姓(xing)是我(wo)(wo)祖宗。必(bi)須以趙氏(shi)(shi)基(ji)業(ye)為重，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)得(de)(de)有(you)二心(xin)。君主有(you)難(nan)，襄(xiang)失(shi)國(guo)后(hou)(hou)(hou)東遷于(yu)邢，程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)氏(shi)(shi)家(jia)族盡(jin)隨之遷來(lai)(lai)。程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)死后(hou)(hou)(hou)，葬(zang)于(yu)縣西(xi)部程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)崗(gang)，附近一村莊命名“程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)家(jia)灣”，程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)廟已(yi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)復存。至今(jin)存有(you)程(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)墓，后(hou)(hou)(hou)世(shi)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)孫(sun)世(shi)代祭祀不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)絕。